Engagement Invitation Card Ideas That Stand Out

Engagement party invitation ideas aren’t difficult to come by, but how do you know if they’re any good? You want to have an engagement party invitation that reflects your surprise, happiness, and personal style. What works for you won’t necessarily work for someone else, which is why it’s important to look into current trends and past styles to see the cards that draw your attention. And that’s what this guide is all about.

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Pro tip: Before you create invitations to your event, find your perfect event space by booking with Peerspace. On Peerspace, you can rent a space by the hour. 

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Table of contents:

• Choosing a design for your engagement invites
  • Go boho
  • Elegantly floral
  • Timeless, vintage style
  • Be playful
  • Theme it
  • Make it formal
• Writing the interior of your invitation
  • Invite must-haves
  • Invitation etiquette
  • Message suggestions
• Find your party venue with Peerspace

Invitation styles that inspire

To help you get started on your engagement invitations, here are some of the top styles you can choose from and which kinds of parties they’re best for. 

Bohemian

Always popular, a bohemian-themed invitation might be a good choice for you if you have a free-spirited vibe. If the engagement party will be less formal and more relaxed, bohemian vibes let you build out a party that has earthy tones and elements that are inviting and great for smaller, intimate gatherings or larger groups. A bohemian invitation sets the tone for a heartfelt, relaxed celebration with close friends and family.

Floral

For a romantic event in the spring, why not consider a floral card? Use a floral theme to choose colors you like while also leaving you open to creating an event that is relaxed, semi-formal, or formal, just based on the kinds of flowers you choose. Daffodils and daisies? Your engagement party may be warm and inviting. Roses and champagne in the design? A more formal night awaits. Wildflowers and pastels? A more rustic event could be in the cards.

Vintage

For lovers who like a more classic approach to engagements and marriage, using vintage elements in a card can be a good choice. Classic fonts, especially scripts, hail back to the early 1900s. And you can use aged, textured papers for that truly timeless feel. For a sense of nostalgia, you can’t go wrong with a mid-century modern or art deco invite.

Playful

Love is supposed to be fun, and an engagement should be exciting. For a couple who loves color or wants to have a party that is more playful and relaxed, like a pizza or pool party theme, choosing a playful design, such as one with bright pops of color or funky fonts, could be the right choice. This kind of invitation is a great way to say: “We’re engaged, now come and hang out to celebrate!” You can also try whimsical or quirky themes, like designs with animals or cartoons, to give a nod to your intended theme.

Themed

Throwing a themed bash? Choose a card that reflects it. If you’re hosting a circus-themed engagement party, a card with a Ferris wheel would stand out. Or, if you want to spend the day on a yacht, consider including boating elements, like a life saver or oars, on the card. 

Formal

Finally, consider a formal card for buttoned-up events. Formal cards may use elements like shiny gold embossed lettering, strong borders, and crisp, clear text. The paper may have a velvet matte finish or be textured cardstock, showing you put more time and money into each invite. With a formal message inside, this card invites guests while giving the impression that this event is not only important but also higher end. 

Interior message FAQs

Once you pick the style of card you’d like to use, you’ll need to write the inside. Here are some top questions and answers for creating the perfect message to send to your guests.

How to create an engagement invitation card

To create an engagement invitation card, you should collect all the following information:

1. The names of the engaged couple
2. The date of the party
3. The time when you’ll hold the party
4. Where the party will be hosted (your Peerspace venue)
5. The name of the host or hosts
6. The dress code for the party
7. RSVP details

It is also a good idea to include an additional card to be returned with the RSVP. This card should include any dietary requirements for the guests and can also indicate how many people are coming (a guest plus one, only the primary guest, etc.).

What is the etiquette for engagement party invitations?

All engagement party invitations should be clear that the party is for an engagement, not a bridal shower, bachelor party, or other related event. You may also want to include a short message to the guests and let them know if gift-giving is expected or allowed.

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Pro tip: Don’t include your wedding registry or directly ask for gifts in the engagement party invitation — it’s bad etiquette. You’ll include your registry with your wedding invitations.

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How to write an engagement party invite

Writing your engagement party card’s internal message doesn’t have to be hard. It can be simple as well.

Some engagement party card message ideas include:

1. “You’re invited to join [name] and [name] at [venue] at [date] and [time] for an engagement party! We are so in love and excited to share this special time with you.”
2. “We’re engaged! Join us for an engagement party to celebrate as a guest of honor. Save the date: [date], [time].”
3. “We’re taking the leap and getting married! We’d be honored to have you join us for our engagement party at [location] on [date] at [time]. We’re looking forward to celebrating with you!”

You can’t go wrong with a short and sweet message — just be sure to include all the important details to make sure guests know where to go and how to RSVP.

Search for your engagement party venue on Peerspace

Before you send out your invitations, you’ll need to find the perfect venue where you can host your engagement party. That’s where Peerspace can make a difference. 

Peerspace is purpose-built for events. Whether you want to book your engagement party for two hours or eight, Peerspace hosts specifically welcome you to their venues for the length of time you need — no overnight stay required. 

These vetted, quality spaces come with verified reviews and instant booking options; book today, and you’ll be able to send out your invitations tomorrow. 

Download the Peerspace App to start your search through the Apple App Store or Google Play Store.