Friendsgiving Invitation Ideas That Set the Perfect Tone

Friendsgiving is more than just a meal—it’s a full-on celebration of your dear pals, chaotic casseroles, and long, lingering conversations that stretch into the night. And like any good party, it all starts with the invitation.

Whether you’re planning a cozy potluck, a dressed-up dinner party, or an all-out feast with backyard games and signature cocktails, your invite sets the tone. These Friendsgiving invitation ideas are designed to spark excitement, share essential details, and reflect the warm fun of your gathering.

Table of contents

• Digital invites
• Design platform options
• Creative printed invitations
• Themed and video invitations
• Essential info to include
• Invitation wording ideas
• Friendsgiving invitation templates: where to find
• Invitation pro tips

Quick and easy digital invites

1. The text that starts the party

Skip the group chat chaos and send a short, sweet invite via text. Amp up the fun with a themed GIF (a dancing turkey is never wrong) or a photo of your past Friendsgiving spread. Keep it casual but clear:

“Mark your calendar: Friendsgiving is back! Thursday, Nov 27th at 4 p.m. Bring a dish, your stretchy pants, and your lovely self.”

2. Instagram story invite

If your friend group lives on IG, make a short story with animated text, music, and emojis. Add a poll (“Mac & cheese or mashed potatoes?”) to boost engagement and sneakily gather intel about preferences.

3. Group chat: pinned and pretty

For tight-knit crews, a group message works well, especially if you pin a graphic with all the event details and add a countdown sticker for extra excitement.

4. Calendar invites that keep everyone on track

Add your Friendsgiving to Google Calendar and invite guests via email. Include key details in the description (food sign-up, dress code, and parking tips) so everything’s easy to find and no one has to scroll through a mountain of texts to remember what to bring.

Need a little more elbow room this year? Book a Friendsgiving-ready space on Peerspace and let the text thread know it’s gonna be that kind of party.

Design platform invitations

If you’re looking to add a bit more polish, these design-forward options make your invite feel extra special.

5. Canva or Paperless Post templates

These platforms offer beautiful templates you can customize with your event details. From rustic autumnal themes to modern minimal designs, you can match your invite to your party vibe. Canva is perfect for DIY designers, while Paperless Post offers elevated, polished options.

6. Potluck sign-up + invite combo

Use a platform like SignUpGenius or Google Sheets to organize dishes while doubling as your invite. Include your address, date, time, and “what to bring” categories, then send the link to guests. It’s efficient and eliminates the “what should I bring?” texts.

7. Shared planning documents

If your friend group is logistics-driven, a shared iPhone note or Trello board with tasks, food items, and timing can double as your invitation and planning hub. Perfect for the type-A personalities who secretly love a good spreadsheet.

Not sure what to include on that sign-up sheet? From appetizers to cocktails, we’ve rounded up the best Friendsgiving food and drink ideas for every kind of crowd.

Creative printed invites

8. Traditional mailed invitations

For a classic, elegant approach, nothing beats a beautiful printed invitation sent through the mail. Choose quality cardstock with autumn colors, elegant typography, or seasonal motifs like chrysanthemums, pumpkins, or warm harvest hues. This option works especially well for more formal Friendsgiving dinners or when inviting guests who appreciate traditional etiquette.

9. Handwritten postcards

Snail mail feels especially charming around the holidays. Send a cute postcard or handmade note to your inner circle. Add in leaf doodles, personal notes, or even a mini recipe on the back. It’s the kind of touch that makes people save your invite on their fridge.

10. Friendsgiving “Golden Ticket”

Turn your invite into a cheeky golden ticket with a line like: “Admit One: To the best gravy boat gathering of the season. Dress code: Cozy & cute.” Tip top points if you hide it in a chocolate bar wrapper.

11. Printable flyers for close communities

If you’re hosting a Friendsgiving with roommates or inviting neighbors, hang up festive flyers in your shared space with key info and RSVP details. Think coffee shop bulletin board meets harvest festival.

Themed and video invitations

12. Friendsgiving invitation video

Create a short video invite using your phone. Walk through your kitchen, show the party setup in progress, or record a silly skit. It adds a personal touch and gives guests a peek at the venue and the fun to come.

13. Theme night teasers

If you’re planning a themed Friendsgiving (pajama party, 70s potluck, or black-tie-and-turkey formal), let the invite set the mood. A mood board or themed graphic helps everyone prep accordingly and prevents the awkward “wait, we’re supposed to dress up?” moment.

Essential information to include

No matter your invitation style, make sure to cover these basics:

Must-have details:

• Host name(s): So guests know who to thank (and who to text if they’re running late)
• Date and time: Be specific and include end time if you have one
• Location: Full address, plus parking info or directions if needed
• RSVP details: Make it easy with a reply method and deadline
• Food expectations: Is it potluck? Should guests bring wine, a dish, or dessert?
• Dress code: Let friends know if it’s casual, cozy, themed, or dressy

Nice-to-have additions:

• Special dietary considerations
• What you’re providing vs. what guests should bring
• Any activities planned (games, football watching, etc.)

Need outfit ideas to match the vibe? Whether your invite calls for cozy, casual, or full-on festive, we’ve rounded up our favorite Friendsgiving outfit ideas to help you show up in style—and stretchy pants.

Friendsgiving invitation wording ideas

Looking for the right tone? Try these examples to match your gathering’s vibe:

Pop culture meets plate culture:

• “It’s giving friends: carbs, chaos, and chosen family. You in?”
• “Get your big pants ready. The Friendsgiving feast begins at 5 p.m.”
• “Turkey and Toasts: Slide through our Friendsgiving open house between 4-8 p.m.”

Gratitude-forward:

• “We’re thankful for friends like you! You are invited to celebrate the season with us.”
• “Let’s raise a glass to good food and better company. Join us for Friendsgiving!”

Feast-focused:

• “Turkey, sides, dessert, and YOU. Our Friendsgiving table wouldn’t be the same without you.”
• “Bring your appetite and your stretchy pants: Friendsgiving is on!”

Short and sweet:

• “You’re invited to Friendsgiving! Join us for food, fun, and gratitude.”
• “Dinner’s on, and we’ve saved you a seat.”

Where to find Friendsgiving invitation templates

Whether you’re going digital or printing on luxe cardstock, there are tons of stylish, creative templates available:

Digital invitation platforms

Paperless Post: Known for elevated design and smooth user experience. Track RSVPs right in the platform with styles ranging from minimalist to whimsical.

Punchbowl: Great for quick, festive online invites sent via text or email. Includes event reminders and party planning tips.

Evite: The OG platform offers tons of themed designs, RSVP tracking, and options to add polls (perfect for potluck organization).

Print-ready templates

Zazzle: Hundreds of customizable designs from modern calligraphy to playful autumn motifs. Upgrade options include foil stamping and luxe paper.

Basic Invite: Extensive customization options for colors, fonts, and layouts. Order printed samples before committing to larger quantities.

Shutterfly: Best for photo-based cards with cheerful artwork and easy personalization tools.

Design-your-own tools

Canva: Perfect for design-curious hosts with free and paid Friendsgiving templates. Complete control over fonts, colors, photos, and layouts.

Etsy: Independent designers offer beautifully crafted templates (both digital and print-ready). Many sellers provide custom options for a more bespoke feel.

Pinterest: While not a template site, it’s packed with inspiration. Search “Friendsgiving invitation ideas” for creative wording and layout ideas.

Pro tips for Friendsgiving invitations

Know your audience: Close friends might prefer a fun group text, while family members or older adults might appreciate a handwritten note or formal invitation.

Send early: Give guests at least 2-3 weeks notice, especially if it’s a potluck requiring coordination.

Follow up: A gentle reminder a few days before helps with final headcounts and last-minute questions.

Make RSVP easy: Whether it’s replying to a text, clicking a link, or calling you directly, remove barriers to responses.

Set the mood before the meal

These Friendsgiving invitation ideas aren’t just about logistics, they’re the opening note of your celebration. From nostalgic postcards to digital invites full of holiday energy, your invite is the first way to say: “I’m so grateful for you! Let’s celebrate the holidays together. “

So choose your style, get those messages out, and get ready to gather, eat, and laugh your way through the coziest holiday of the year. Your perfectly crafted invitation is just the beginning of an unforgettable Friendsgiving celebration.

Whether your invite hints at cozy, casual, or full-on festive, Peerspace has the ideal space to match. Start with the perfect location, and let the celebration follow.