Throwing An “Alice in Wonderland” Themed Wedding: Tips & Tricks For The Perfect Day
- Date: September 25, 2023
- Topic: Events
- Contributors: Written by Angela Orlando

Source: Peerspace
Are you considering throwing an “Alice in Wonderland” themed wedding? If so, we understand, because the fun classic story makes for a fantastical theme for the matrimonial ceremony of a lifetime.
Since it’s such a nontraditional theme, you can be truly creative when playing with an “Alice in Wonderland” wedding motif. Just think of all the elements from the story that you can incorporate and add a strong whiff of psychedelia.
Ahead, we at Peerspace share a how-to guide full of tips and tricks to celebrate your big day. As the largest online marketplace for hourly venue rentals, we understand what it takes to plan an amazing themed event. We promise that the White Rabbit will run toward you, not further down the rabbit hole.
The story arc

Once upon a time in England, a young lady named Alice fell asleep on a grassy riverbank. She didn’t know that she was dreaming when she saw a white bunny wearing a waistcoat and holding a watch hopping quickly away from her. She chased the bunny right down the rabbit hole and ended up having a somewhat scary adventure in the beautiful garden of Wonderland.
Victorian-era British author Lewis Carroll was also an illustrator, and he provided his readers with some fantastic illustrations of Alice and her adventures both in Wonderland and “Through the Looking Glass.” Over the years, Disney and others have adapted his story into animated films and picture books, so we have a lot to go on for ideas for your Alice in Wonderland-themed wedding.
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First, secure a venue on Peerspace

No matter what kind of wedding ceremony you are hosting, the first thing to think about is where to hold it. That, of course, depends on how many guests you’re inviting, as well as your personal style. In the case of an Alice in Wonderland-themed wedding, you’ll probably want to hold the event outside, since so much of the story takes place en plein air.
This means you’ll need a non-traditional space, so head straight to Peerspace.com and search all the original venues on the bookings platform.
Peerspace is the largest online platform for booking creative and fun events venues just like what you’ll need for an Alice in Wonderland wedding. There are literally thousands of Peerspaces in several countries, with more being added every day.
Head to the website, enter the date of your ceremony, and the city or area where you’d like to wed, and peruse the gorgeous photos of the available venues. If you have questions, you can reach out directly to the host. And most listings have guest reviews so you can gather details from their rental experiences.
Since our story kicks off on a grassy riverbank, consider hosting the Alice in Wonderland wedding on the grounds of this Georgian-era estate in Surrey, England. With the right decorations, you can realize your wedding theme straight from the storybook illustrations. In fact, the space might have actually informed author Carroll as he drafted his tale. With its gardens, river access, and woodland path, it wouldn’t be a stretch to situate your Wonderland right here.
Decor ideas

Steampunk and psychedelia are the foundational design elements that inform the contemporary visual interpretation of the 1864 children’s classic. Use Easter-esque pastels for your chair sashes and your flowers to stay true to the storyline. You can also go with a super bright 1960s motif to tap into the “Feed Your Head” classic rock era. Either way, mix in some brass for the steampunk aspects.
Lots of symbolic props punctuate the story of Alice in Wonderland. You can use them as decorative elements throughout your wedding ceremony to make the theme come to life. The White Rabbit in the story was late for a very important date. In this case, that date is a wedding ceremony!
Concentrate on the focal points like the podium and chairs. Then, intersperse some pocket watches, hourglasses, keys, playing cards, chess pieces, and the like. Importantly, do not forget to find some embellished hand mirrors – though their reflective glint might challenge your photos a bit.
Love the steampunk element of Alice in Wonderland and want it to feature prominently in your wedding? Then consider hosting your “i do”s at this expansive steampunk-inspired lounge in San Francisco, CA. It is 3,000 square feet and provides space for 200 guests, which is more than enough space for most nuptials. The host provides tables, chairs, a projector, a screen, and a sound system. You and your guests can also enjoy full bar service, including the venue’s signature drinks. Talk to them about your wedding theme and see what they can come up with!
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Attire

It would be a little too on-the-nose if you asked your officiant to dress up like a rabbit. However, why not consider asking them to dress as royalty? After all, the Queen of Hearts staked her claim to fame in “Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland,” so why not bring her back to life at your ceremony?
Carroll wrote in Victorian times, while Disney interpreted Alice’s clothing as a blue dress with a white smock. You could go literal with the wedding dress and wear something vintage Victorian. Men can opt to wear velveteen waistcoats and brandish pocket watches, and perhaps a steampunk top hat like the Mad Hatter wore.
It would be adorable to have a bunny as your flower girl, but that’s a tall order. Still, if you were going down that rabbit hole, it would be quite a hoot to host your Alice in Wonderland wedding at this Sonoma farm. It’s a gorgeous indoor and outdoor venue, with thoughtful add-on services provided by the host.
You can also have a tea party-style ceremony in this quaint French garden outside of Chicago. It’s part of a 100-year-old home, with indoor space that includes a chef’s kitchen, three dining areas, and a living room with a baby grand piano.
But don’t just take our word for how amazing your wedding could be here! Check out this review from a fellow Peerspace user: “Extraordinary! Gorgeous! PERFFECT! We held our wedding and reception at Grace French Manor Home and Garden and could not have been happier with how everything went. The garden and house are even more beautiful than the photos show! The house is full of beautiful details both inside and out, and the garden is a semi-hidden paradise. Edwina, the owner, is amazing. She went *far* above and beyond to make sure that everything was wonderful for our special day.”
Alice in Wonderland themed wedding: conclusion

As you can see, throwing an Alice in Wonderland themed wedding doesn’t have to make you run around like one of the Queen of Hearts’ card soldiers. All you need are these wedding theme ideas and the perfect venue from Peerspace! Check out our platform today to discover your favorite space that will bring your Alice wedding dreams to life.
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