Cover three things early: what's in the food, whether activities fit the ages, and whether the room stays uncrowded. Get those right and you can watch the fun instead of hovering over it.
Allergies come first.
FARE reports that about one in 13 children has a food allergy, and even trace amounts can cause a reaction. Ask about allergies on the invitation and label every dish, since "may contain" warnings aren't regulated in the US.
If a bounce house is on the wish list, confirm the venue has flat ground and open space around it. Guidance from the
Consumer Product Safety Commission says to skip inflatables in winds over 15 to 25 mph and stake them away from trees, fences, and power lines. It also recommends grouping kids by similar size, banning flips, and keeping an adult on watch.
Indoors, the room matters, too. Philadelphia's fire code, published by the
City of Philadelphia, bars crowding past a space's approved capacity and treats blocked exits as violations. Ask the venue manager for the approved occupant load, and keep gift tables and stroller parking clear of doors.
- Supervision: Assign each adult a small group of kids during busy activities.
- Contacts: Collect a parent's phone number for every drop-off guest.
- Calm corner: Set aside a quiet spot for overwhelmed little ones.
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